Once A Cheater, Always A Cheater

Broken-Hearted Girl:

"Baby I'm so sorry." "I swear I'll never do it again." "It didn't even mean anything, i just wasn't thinking." Excuses excuses excuses....that's all we ever hear. Well when your in so called "Love" your dumb enough to fall for that crap. Like I've said before right now it's all just for fun. He is young the last thing he wants is commitment. So when he feeds you all those lies it's not because he means it, its because he just wants to keep you around. If he was really in "Love" with you it would have never happened in the first place. Come on girls its time to wise up and stop letting boys run all over you. Why stay with someone that doesn't have the decency to stay faithful? Trust me if he did it once then he'll do it again. As the saying goes old habits die hard. Obviously he doesn't care about you that much to be happy with you and only you.

(This is for my good friend Dusty. Thanks for all the crap you put me through)

So you tell me...is love real?

Money To Blow?

From Mr Right?:

I have a theory... Girls only want to be with dudes because they want the securitty and the idea that they can get what ever they want for free! Think about it fellas... how many times have you spent money on a girl for the movies, dinner, or any thing yall do together!!! And lets not forget about the 3 major Money Blowing Holidays to a girl. CHRISTMAS! VALENTINES DAY! & HER BIRTHDAY! Your spending all this money on her for what!! To end up with out her and with another girl which your going to end up doing the same thing as last time.. Blowing Money on a girl your not even going to be with for the rest of your life! And fellas have you noticed that when you ask a girl out she only says yes when its around Valentines Day, Christmas, or her Birthday!! WTF IS UP WITH THAT!! and they always end up breaking up with you after you have blew all your money on her! The thing that really grinds my gears is that how girls trip when you don't blow money on her!! Its only fair that once in a while that she pays for your ticket at the movies! That she pay for the check at dinner!! Guys always spend to much Money on girls!But you want to know the real reason why we guys do this? To impress the girl, but dang how much impressin does she need!!! If it is so called "Love" then guys shuldn't have to be pressured to pay for everything!

So you tell me... is love real?

Girls, Girls, Girls!

From Mr. Right?:

Like the old Fresh Prince song proclaimed "parents just don't understand!!" well now-a-days they understand a lot more. Today it should be "GIRLS JUST DON'T UNDERSTAND!!" Guys have you ever felt you had this thing for this girl and you bought and did everything for this girl that you THOUGHT was the one! The two of you have been talking for the longest and you both show feelings for eachother and when you finally pop the question... " Will you go out with me?" She starts to act suprised!! and then she says the famous line "I just want to be friends" NO! that's B.S. Girls stay leading dudes on and making us guys feel like this might be the special one that in love with!! The reason Girls do this is because they want to have the comfort of having a guy that she knows she can trust and always have in there pocket! Well Ladies if all you want is friendship you need to say that the beginning! now months later after we cuddled, gone on dates, after we have already basically bought you what ever you wanted! Stop getting us caught up in all these emotions be real with us!!!

So you tell me... is love real?

This Thing Called Love

Broken-Hearted Girl:

Many teenagers are throwing out the L word all willy nilly like it has no true meaning anymore. No I'm not talking about lesbians. Personally i think love is meant for those over the age of 17 and have actually been through some ups and downs that are worth mentioning. To kids that think your in love, you're highly mistaken. Trust me, if you have a boyfriend yeah it may be all fun and games right now but that's only because to him you're whats hot at that moment. He may say he loves you and he's never felt like this about anyone else before but its not sincere. Some say these things because they feel obligated to because of how you feel or even just because they're with you and it seems like the right thing to say. Others say this to be manipulative and get you emotionally attached so that when they do screw up it won't matter because they've already got you on a very tight leash. Also I'm sick and tired of seeing girls just give their heart to anyone who says a few nice words to them. Boys aren't looking for a long term relationship or to fall in love with you they just want to have a good time so girls you should do the same. That's what makes this whole boyfriend girlfriend thing so messed up. People don't understand that you're supposed to really get to know somebody before you become exclusive. And you don't ask somebody do you want to go out with me or be my girlfriend / boyfriend. It's just something you feel in your heart. Your supposed to feel like you don't want to be with anybody else and you're 100% positive about that. Then you go and confront the other person and tell them how you're feeling and see if they feel the same. If not, then you just give it more time.You don't just rush into a relationship and see how things go. You're still young and have some growing up to do. You don't need to rush into anything. But that doesn't mean you ignore what you're heart is telling you. Love is tricky and there is no right way to do it. But you can be smart about it.

So you tell me... is love real?